Hidden from sight

The aphorism ‘never judge a book by its cover’ instructs us to look beyond first impressions to the real substance of something: the food that a restaurant serves rather than it’s décor; the talents of a performer rather than their charisma; the space inside a property rather than its kerb appeal. All of these should be possible with a little time and research, and it’s a commendable approach.

But when it comes to human hearts, it can be much more difficult to see ‘what’s inside’. In seeking out the person whom the Lord had chosen as the next king of Israel, Samuel was implored not to judge Eliab by his impressive appearance. But neither would his words and actions have been a simple way to judge him: unpleasant words and behaviour often come from a place of deep hurt. And likewise, apparently charming and winsome behaviour can belie a desire to manipulate or control.

Rather it is God who intimately knows each one of us, and God who calls us to the good works that he has prepared for us to do (Ephesians 2:10). So what should we do about other people, whether impressive or irritating? Our task is to love one another well, and to leave the judgements to God.

God of friendship, thank you for the joy of friends, family and fellow workers. Help me to connect with those who can encourage me, and may I be an encouragement to others. Amen.